The Hub

Consent & Protocol

No assumptions shall be made by any individual as to another person’s consent.

Non-verbal/reading people will not be held as valid consent.

Verbal consent is the only form of consent that shall exist on the night.

Do not insert yourself into other people’s scenes, if you weren’t there for pre-negotiation or invited to do so at the start do not engage.

Keep a respectful DISTANCE and do not interrupt players when near their scene, this includes pre-scene setup & aftercare.

No Solo Wanking!

Please do not play in the social areas.

If you wish to report a violation of these rules, please reach out to one of the hosts. Even if it is one of them, find the other host to report it to.

If anyone is found to be in serious breach of these rules we reserve the right to eject them from the party – including their guests.

RED will be held as the house safe word.

Photography is allowed, but you must gain consent from every person in the picture. Be wary of people in the background if taking pictures.

If In a shared playspace. Don’t use flash photography so as not to interrupt someone’s scene.

You have been invited as trusted upstanding members of the community please self-police yourself. If you see something not quite right talk to the DM ASAP.

Club rules

  • We have zero tolerance towards racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, body-shaming, ageism, ableism, discrimination of any kind whatsoever. 
  • Microaggressions: What to know about microaggressions
  • Be respectful of the spaces you are using, please clean up after yourself.
  • The music & lighting will not change by request 
  • Steam room & sauna, it’s not a game, don’t push yourself take breaks : ) Water is your friend.
  • Hottub: please don’t overfill it if you see the water level is high.  
  • Types of play not permitted: Scat/Piss (Squirting is fine), extreme CNC, Ultra-violence
  • Wax/Messy play: Bring a sheet to put down. Use the cabins, Do not put any wax in the shower drains.: Talk to a DM if you’re unsure.

    A cleaning fee may happen if your leaving a mess & void any invite back.

  • When closing a cabin door for play be aware DMs cannot protect you.
  • Pronouns respect them! don’t make any assumptions about a person’s gender by calling or talking about a person as he/him she/her without actually knowing for example.
  • Do not go outside without covering up the nosey neighbors will complain.

Vices & Consumption

  • This is a dry event, this doesn’t mean it’s a sober event, take this into account when negotiating.
  • We don’t judge anyone based on their consumption habits and wish for all attendees to feel comfortable and free to be their most expressive version of themselves. Yet, we suggest asking yourself some questions as you explore.

    Am I enhancing my experience or escaping something?

    Am I still in touch with myself?

  • We love Jaffa cakes at 404, we might ask you this to make sure you have read the rules.

    Can I still sense the boundaries of myself and others?

    Do I do this out of habit or did I make a conscious choice?

    Do I know when to stop?”