No assumptions shall be made by any individual as to another person’s consent.
Non-verbal/reading people will not be held as valid consent.
Verbal consent is the only form of consent that shall exist on the night.
Do not insert yourself into other people’s scenes, if you weren’t there for pre-negotiation or invited to do so at the start do not engage.
Keep a respectful DISTANCE and do not interrupt players when near their scene, this includes pre-scene setup & aftercare.
No Solo Wanking!
Please do not play in the social areas.
If you wish to report a violation of these rules, please reach out to one of the hosts. Even if it is one of them, find the other host to report it to.
If anyone is found to be in serious breach of these rules we reserve the right to eject them from the party – including their guests.
RED will be held as the house safe word.
Photography is allowed, but you must gain consent from every person in the picture. Be wary of people in the background if taking pictures.
If In a shared playspace. Don’t use flash photography so as not to interrupt someone’s scene.
You have been invited as trusted upstanding members of the community please self-police yourself. If you see something not quite right talk to the DM ASAP.
Wax/Messy play: Bring a sheet to put down. Use the cabins, Do not put any wax in the shower drains.: Talk to a DM if you’re unsure.
A cleaning fee may happen if your leaving a mess & void any invite back.
We don’t judge anyone based on their consumption habits and wish for all attendees to feel comfortable and free to be their most expressive version of themselves. Yet, we suggest asking yourself some questions as you explore.
Am I enhancing my experience or escaping something?
Am I still in touch with myself?
Can I still sense the boundaries of myself and others?
Do I do this out of habit or did I make a conscious choice?
Do I know when to stop?”